good to hear  that u got it going just keep it up..i would ask the bank for a personal loan  with low intrest..if not maybe youd have to sell  which would suck..but it would help ya out..id still put your name on the list  they said the same to me i waited6 months  they have openings that come up and if you do end up homeless you would be put at the top sorry about your grandma..feel ya there..alot of stress on ya..well id make sure i would take some time for myself out of the day if i were u  take care best of luck for ya and your family

go smaller..a good community with a couple thosand people would b good for u  less stress good schools  better chances at getting some help.. most states have web sites about there cities and towns..browse around find a few do some reserch and then decide on whats a good choice for u and ur babies

family..do you have his and your family near..if so ask for help..and if he goes into the military after boot camp you and your family can be stationed with him..only if you are married so hang in there..till then  like i have said to alot of people go to your local agencies for help  keep on em ask for help in the things you need call you utilty companies and ask for a payment plan and as for disability it could take a long time but keep on em  use emergency assistance  agencies it is sometimes a one time use if you havent used it before try it ..there is no harm in asking the state u live in for help  it does not make u look like a bad person..or a worthless one cuz you are trying  if you need to move look into low income housing or ones that will help pay rent for you .. there are alot of resorces out there and as for being apart from your love..it will make things stronger for you both ..i was apart from mine once and i kept a journal for him talking to him everyday  on top of letters but it will help cuz sometimes its just good to get things out of ouyr mind and write em down..also keep a progress journal for your money and bills ..once you notice changes and see that you have made changes your spirits will be higher..

move..transfer your stuff..and get out of the city  find a new life somewhere else..cuz it seems your problems are from being in a big city  save up call some small towns about housing jobs help from local agencies and get things set up and move 

sorry i thought it was iowa

i live not far from independence.. and if you want someone to talk to i will talk to you and i have been there i am thee now yet i wont give up and it is hard it will be cuz thats the reality of it..but there are things to do to make things a bit less stressfull so if you want to yalk i am here  i have been there i know  i have the scars to ;show it

well if you have those kinds of disorders u need medication..i know..i am a recovering addict too if you dont get your mental health in order nothing else will matter that breakdown that you had will happen again..drug abuse might..so dont think that you dont need help for those disorders..cuz ya do..once you get that in order..then things will clear up and school and work wont be a struggle....u say you make to much money and is in debt well  spend less on things u dont need and add it up i.f its that bad then stop kicking things and get a pt job with that time

go to your local community action or dhs there are people there to help ..even a church but if they help  you need to return the favor..someone helps you ..help them..i have been here before i too have felony and have hell of a time with work..take your experience and do something with it .. go back to school part time  as for work..your best bet  farm jobs ..loading trucks..  constuction.. keep trying only u can make it better..also  make a savings account and put money in it so save..that way if it gets rough again you have a reliable place to go ..cuz this site will give info  not cash.. we are here to help  but all reality  noboy gives money away..so go try  for your family..ask your local places for help

i will tell you straight forward honey  you ned to get up get out and go get a job..there are a lot of sorces to help you with childcare and low income families..you want the best for those kids then go do something  go to school..take the time you have spent on think about what to do and go spend that time puting your words into action..live a life not talk about one..i am sorry i am so harsh but sometimes the whole woe is me is old and someone needs to be stern and say how they see it ..i am that person..so go ..dont sit there thinking..you have a will use it ..be strong for yourself so you can take care of your own..it will be alright

well first off.. make sure you take care of your health..stress is not good for diabetics..this may sound a bit harsh but i am honest..you have to cut cost in your family if you eat out stop if you put to much gas in a car walk or if your kids drive.. they must go to work to pay for there own gas..if they are little..do more things that dont cost a dime with them..so they are happy and yet u save money  start a account savings and put 10 20 bucks in it when you can..do not use it  cuz when you have a big payment youd have the cash on hand.. most all  second job..even a walking newspaper route..heck even have the kids help ya . and try some diffrent sorces for help like with your wife disability..and there are sorces out there to help pay bills while you recover..aflac..try your local agencies..you asked for help so keep trying doing is the only way to get it done

try try try try ...i too am a recovering addict and nobody did much for me cuz i was not a very good person so you need to do it yourself sit down get a phone book and call for help for issues like a job.. if you have to walk to places ask for interviews cuz with out a job you wont get the rest and if you dont try to do something..recovery wont stay long..also there are grants for school call local community colleges put up some fliers after u register for car p[ooling for one you d have a ride and for too gas wouldnt be so high that way..sit and think your choice

it will depend on where u live but most states have places that help with housing..call rual housing development housing for low income homes..most places will take payments on the deposit..if at all you can call your dhs or comunity action providers they will help..if you happened to have burned these bridges you may have to take out a personal loan and start from scratch..i too have been here but honey no matter how much u ask or how bad  it seems this world your the one that has to do it there are mental health places that will waive payments due to income and ask a friend or a neighbor to help with kids you  have to do this you  cant sit back and not do something  and dont give up your xhildren cuz to them you are all they need and dont for a minute think that life is over cuz as soon as you start to try harder this moment will pass your life is what u make it it can work or you can feel sorry for yourself and lay down..you have babies so show them not to give up and keep trying turn over every rock call people show up  and keep pushing the more you  want it the better the chances to have it ..take care and dont feel like your nothing..if you gotta ask for help do it dont let your pride ruin your life

i am on here to help others i have been through alot in my life ..drugs..prison..loosing my kids..no money no job.. i have been homless..no car no life..depression..suicide  u name it  hell lets put it that way but i have my life and my kids and sober all back and more ...i still have issues but who doesent.if i write to you expect me to be honest and straight forward with you  i am not intressed in hearing about self pitty and excuses..if i write you and you write back all mad  cuz you cant handle the truth dont bother cuz it wont bother me..plus if you write back giving 100s of excuses why you cant  then i wont hear it ethier..be a positive person and take some control over your life it is your life  so only u can do it for u